星期日, 7月 30, 2006

Parent's wish

毎個父母都會傷害自己的孩子。
忽略,漠視,責打...
至於我ma...
有時啦, 我老豆日日飲beer仔, 有時飲大左,無端端罵我(勁甘果隻)
又話唔想生我地出來...(:p)
不過...
有時都冇乜ge...近來佢重睇埋d恩雨之声, 星火飛騰(宗教節目)...haha...
see this, it will touches your heart...

To our child:
On the day when you see us old, weak and weary...
Have patience and try to understand us...

If we get dirty when eating...
If we cannot dress on our own...
Please bear with us and remember the time we spent feeding you and dressing you up.

If, when we speak to you, we repaet the same things over and over again...
do not interrupt us...listen to us.
When you were small, we had to read to you the same story a thousand and one time you went to sleep.
When we do not want to have a shower, niether shame nor scold us...
remember when we had to chase you to the shower?

When you see our ignorance of new technologies...
help us navigate our way through those worldwide webs.
We taught you how to see many things...
to eat the right foods, to dress appropriately, to fight for your rights...

When the same moments we lose the memory of the thread of our conversation...
let us have the necessary time to remember...
and if we cannot, do not became nervous...
as the most important things is not our conversation but surely to be with you and to have you listening to us...

If ever we do not feel like eating, do not force us.
We know well when we need to and when not to eat.
When our tired legs give way ang so mot allow us to walk without a cane.
Lend us your hand.
The same way we did when you tried your first faltering steps.

And when someday we say to you that we so not want to live any more, that we want to die.
Do not get angry. Some day you will understand.
Try to understand that our age is not just lived but surived.

Some day you will realize that despite our mistakes, we always wantedthe best for you.
And we tried to prepared the way for you.

You must not feel sad, angry nor ashamed for having us near you.
Instead, try to understand us and help us like we did when you were young.
Help us to talk...Help us to live the rest of our life with love and dignity.
We will pay you with a smile and by the immense love we have always had for you in our hearts.

We love you, child.
Mom and Dad

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