What is my destiny?
今天上ELC，我們的老師熱咖啡叫我們回答一些問題比方說：What do you hope for? What is your childhood like? What do you hate? Where are you? What do you see? Who do you trust?
我回答了What is my destiny?
佢話我答得好，呵呵呵......
It is very hard to explain destiny.
But we use destiny to explain many things, our success, our failure...... we met someone, we lost someone......
I think it is contradict to causal relationship.
As it suggests that all things are planned, arranged and we can do nothing about it.
But causal relationship is everything has reasons.
Our destiny could be who your parents are, what is your birthday, your race, your nationality......
When we grow up, it seems like we could control many things, we have many choices......but actually, maybe we have no choice, the destiny decides us.
Maybe until the day that we die, we will realize that the most important thing is the process, not the starting point, not the result, not the reason. But the process, and during the process, we honestly express ourselves and we fight for and defend the values that we cherish. The process is our final or big destiny.
我的命運？
我覺命運是很難解釋的，但我們常以命運解釋很多事。
比方說我們的成功，我們的失敗；我們遇到誰，我們失去誰......
某程度上我以為命運和因果關係是有衝突的。
因為前者好像是所有事都是已安排了的，人是無法扭轉的。命運是唯一的答案，唯一的解釋。但後者是，各有前因，凡事有因，故有此果。人好像有較多的控制權。
說起控制，當我們漸漸長大時，好似很多事我們都有控制權、我們有很多的選擇。但是，可能命運早已決定了我們。
例如是我們的性別、我們的生日、我們的父母家庭、我們的種族、國藉......
可能要到我們死的那一天，我們才會驚覺到，生命中最重要的，不是起點、不是結果、收成，而是過程。是在那個旅程、那個過程之中，我們坦白的表述自己，我們全力的保衞、我們全力爭取那些我們珍惜的價值。
我頓時覺得這個旅程就是我們最大的命運。
由 亞齊 發佈 @ 8:27 下午
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